For anyone else that reads Tangency, the big seekrit other forum is on needcoffee.com

Yeah, I find the “nyah, nyah, I know but I won't tell you” attitude rather annoying, how did you guess? If you want to keep it quiet, that's one thing. Taunting people with the fact that you know but won't tell is quite another. It was humorous once or twice. It has failed to continue to be so with repetition.

If you go there, TOP means “the other place”